Research has now documented what most women have known for years. The fact that “habitual guilt [by which they mean a kind of internalized feeling of guilt] was more intense in women than in men in all three age groups studied.”
Over the years, casual conversations with other mothers indicate we always put our families first. Whether it is scheduling events, purchasing clothes, or sometimes even the movie we see. We’ll bring our lunch to work for multiple days so we can register the kids for baseball or gymnastics. Some even forego career moves.
Yet research mentioned in my last blog pointed out, we women are more likely to volunteer to help through community service organizations.
SITK has just made a very progressive move to help recruit new members. New members can prepay their annual dues for Soroptimist. By prepaying, the amount paid per month induces less guilt about spending money on ourselves. It lets us feel good about helping other women and girls as part of a group – we know the power of one multiplies when we bundle that energy as a unit. Plus it’s fun to work on projects together! For details on the prepay plan, email sitkclub@aol.com .
As always, to keep up with SITK become a fan on Facebook. We’ll be looking for you at Google’s St. Pat’s parade!
Sunday, March 14, 2010
Monday, February 8, 2010
The Greatest of these is Charity
I was driving home, feeling a bit smug. I’d just purchased Valentines for people special to me – and I had days to spare before mailing them. The news started with several stories about charitable causes: a recent local adoption, churches collecting items for Haitians, Katrina successes.
Earlier in the week the US Bureau of Labor Statistics had reported 26.8% of our population over 16 years old gave unpaid time through or for an organization. The median amount of time given was an hour each week.
Compare that to 75% of Americans contribute to charity, giving about 3% of their income annually, according to givingisgood.com. A national United Way spokesperson said the average family contributes $250/yr.
The Labor Bureau’s survey indicated the main recipients of volunteer time are social and community service organizations. Statistics indicated the most likely person to volunteer was (drum roll, please) a married, college-educated woman in her 30s or40s, with children, and employed.
Why a drum roll? As a member of Soroptimist International of Topeka (SITK), I’m interested in finding women interested in community service projects to improve the lives of women and girls in our community and throughout the world. SITK has been serving our community since 1931. Visit us on Facebook to see what we’ve been up to and how much fun we have. You’ll want to join us.
The United Way spokesperson had commented that he’d like to change ‘give until it hurts’ to ‘give until it feels good.’ Another person put a more positive spin on the idea, ‘invest your time and energy until you feel good.’ Or the aged verse from I Corinthians: “And now stays faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.”
Earlier in the week the US Bureau of Labor Statistics had reported 26.8% of our population over 16 years old gave unpaid time through or for an organization. The median amount of time given was an hour each week.
Compare that to 75% of Americans contribute to charity, giving about 3% of their income annually, according to givingisgood.com. A national United Way spokesperson said the average family contributes $250/yr.
The Labor Bureau’s survey indicated the main recipients of volunteer time are social and community service organizations. Statistics indicated the most likely person to volunteer was (drum roll, please) a married, college-educated woman in her 30s or40s, with children, and employed.
Why a drum roll? As a member of Soroptimist International of Topeka (SITK), I’m interested in finding women interested in community service projects to improve the lives of women and girls in our community and throughout the world. SITK has been serving our community since 1931. Visit us on Facebook to see what we’ve been up to and how much fun we have. You’ll want to join us.
The United Way spokesperson had commented that he’d like to change ‘give until it hurts’ to ‘give until it feels good.’ Another person put a more positive spin on the idea, ‘invest your time and energy until you feel good.’ Or the aged verse from I Corinthians: “And now stays faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.”
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